With practice and patience, you can talk dirty like a pro! But is it always that easy? Some women will tell you it is while others will say it is the hardest thing they have ever tried. It’s important to clarify the fact that talking dirty to your boyfriend does not make you look bad in his eyes.
The only problem is that women fail to discuss dirty talk with their partners and in the process end up not having the best sex possible. That dirty talk should be part and parcel of your sex experience needs no emphasis. However, you need to do it right. These tips outlined below will show you how to do exactly that.
The tone, it’s all in the tone of your voice… You need to master how to adjust your tone to build sexual tension. The tone you use when talking dirty actually determines how well he is going to respond. Try a deep and soulful tone the next time you want to talk dirty, and it will certainly turn him on. If you’re talking to him over the phone, a sexy tone will keep him thinking about you.
Your voice’s speed… Learning how to talk dirty to your boyfriend requires you to adjust the speed of your voice. The faster the talking speed, the less likely that you will arouse him. Speak slowly in a very suggestive manner if you want to turn him on.
Your body language… How you behave needs to portray that you are sexually aroused. At the very least, it should trigger his sexual desires too. For instance, saying “I love your dick” is dirty all right. However, say it with body language at the same time. Your body language goes a long way in turning him on, and you should use it whenever you’re talking dirty to your man.
Don’t be afraid to show what you can do sexually… Men like women who are not afraid to show their dirty side. When dirty talking to your man, let him know what you can do sexually. In other words, use dirty talk to make your man long for you. Be open and intimate because the more you let him explore your sexual prowess, the easier it is to fulfill his sexual desires. The art of dirty talk gives you a chance to go above board and try out your sexual abilities without fear of being judged.
Incorporate spontaneity… Talking dirty to your boyfriend doesn’t have to happen in the bedroom. It could happen anywhere. In fact, if it happens outside the bedroom, the level of anticipation created is immense. There is no harm in talking dirty to him in the morning, over lunch, on your way home and at the dinner table. The small pieces of dirty talk will have your man glowing with sexual desire.
Talk dirty… You don’t have to wait for your man to initiate dirty talk because most of the time he never will. Take the lead because that’s how to make him follow suit much faster. Don’t be afraid to use dirty talk as a way of stamping your authority in bed. When you initiate dirty talk, you’re in essence giving clues to your man on how you want to be treated sexually.
Men are very good in following what their women are telling them particularly in bed or when having sex. For instance, when you say to him “harder babe, harder!” that’s exactly what you’re going to get.
Sex is at the core of every relationship. As a matter of fact, a relationship without sex is not only dull, but unexciting as well. While there are many ways to spruce up your sex life, talking dirty to your boyfriend is certainly one of them. Like mentioned earlier on, the more you do it, the easier it becomes. So, go ahead and do it like a pro!