Are men really into women that talk dirty in the bedroom? If they are, how can you learn to talk dirty the right way – because like everything else, dirty talk can be the best thing to happen to your sex life or it can be the worst. We girls are an interesting lot, aren’t we?
Most girls that I have talked to recently regarding dirty talking say that they love to please their partners in the bedroom but the greatest fear most have is losing control. I gathered that transforming from a prim and proper lady to an utter slut and naughty girl in the bedroom is hard, but it is possible.
The most important thing about dirty talking is that it is all about communication. Talking dirty is communicating your feelings and desires and instructing your partner what to do. For proper communication, you have to be free and relaxed and know your partner well enough to ascertain the things that turn them on and those that you should avoid.
The best suggestion I can give you is to start slowly – there is no need to push and act like a porn star on your first attempt because it may backfire on your face. Most girls will find that using certain words and phrases can be uncomfortable and may feel shy about it, but with time they discover how easy it is to just open up and express themselves. As I pointed out before, communication is the key to getting what you want and it is much easier for a girl to talk dirty than for a guy to.
I should also say that talking about dirty talking and sharing some sexual fantasies that you have will help you understand what your partner wants and him to know what to expect and what to do. While I was researching on this topic, I talked to a number of girls and most never make the effort to ask their men what they think about talking dirty – just like many other things regarding sex. The result is that there are things they want to say or things they want their partners to do but they never really get them.
Girls who have made the effort and perfected dirty talking please their men better than those who are silent in bed. I asked some boys too for their opinions on dirty talking and almost every one I asked admitted being turned on by one form of dirty talk or another. The bottom line is, men expect dirty talking – even if it is just moaning and swearing – from you, the girl. What will you do about it?